23 of the Best Compliments - The Only List You Need!
The thing about growing up male is that a lot of us don’t have a strong background in verbally expressing just how much someone or something means to us. Consider this article a celebration of the shift in masculine consciousness that is going on right now.
No longer is “stoic, silent and emotionally stunted” the norm we aspire to. At the end of the day, that’s all fakery. There’s nothing attractive about hiding behind a mask.
Today’s man is constantly striving to express himself authentically. He sees worth in honesty and strength in vulnerability. That means knowing how to tell another person exactly why we value them and exactly how we love and adore them by knowing how to give good compliments.
Check our list for some ideas to get the wheels in your head turning.
Here are 23 of the best compliments:
1. I Bet You Make Babies Smile.
You’re recognizing the positivity that shines out of this person.
2. You Have Impeccable Manners.
Good manners are the ultimate form of courtesy and consideration of others.
3. You Are The Most Perfect You There Is.
We all worry that others won’t like who we are at our core. We all benefit from the assurance that being ourselves is enough.
4. Your Perspective Is Refreshing.
This is a powerful affirmation for a person who is brave enough to share their ideas, even if they might be unpopular at first.
5. You Should Be Proud Of Yourself.
You’re letting your loved one know that their accomplishment is worthy.
6. You’re More Helpful Than You Realize.
This is a great one to reassure our friends that they are appreciated even beyond what they are aware of.
7. You’ve Got All The Right Moves!
This is a great all-around affirmation and it can cover anything from steps taken in a procedure to dance steps.
8. Your Kindness Is A Balm To All Who Encounter It.
We totally encourage you to embrace your poetic side, especially in texts and writing.
9. You’re Even More Beautiful On The Inside Than You Are On The Outside.
During a time when many of us fear being seen only for what’s on the surface, it is especially valuable to let others know that you perceive what may go unspoken and unseen by others.
10. When You’re Not Afraid To Be Yourself Is When You’re Most Incredible.
It helps when we all encourage each other to be our honest, authentic selves. Fear and insecurity can cloud any endeavor, and we can all benefit from affirming each other that we are enough.
11. If You Were A Box Of Crayons, You’d Be The Giant Name-Brand One With The Built-In Sharpener.
Try on some metaphorical humor to express your compliment words and produce a smile.
12. You’re A Candle In The Darkness.
This one’s deep. It gets the most mileage in writing where it can be read over and over again in times of self-doubt.
13. Actions Speak Louder Than Words, And Yours Tell An Incredible Story.
You’re saying that you are moved by your awareness of another’s courage and tenacity.
14. In High School, I Bet You Were Voted “Most Likely To Keep Being Awesome.”
That’s a funny all-around good compliment that says: “You’re great now and I bet you’ve been great since forever.”
15. You’re Really Something Special.
The word “special” is boundless in its depth.
16. Babies And Small Animals Probably Love You.
The thing about babies and small animals is that they are symbolic of raw honesty and ultimate truth.
17. If Cartoon Bluebirds Were Real, A Couple Of ’Em Would Be Sitting On Your Shoulders Singing Right Now.This is a humorous way to say that another exudes positivity.
18. You’re More Fun Than A Ball Pit Filled With Candy.
Ball pits, candy, and Disney World are universal metaphors for fun and unfettered happiness.
19. You Always Know How To Find That Silver Lining.
Idioms for positivity never fail to add color and creativity to your words.
20. You’re More Fun Than Bubble Wrap.
Metaphors as compliments are great for adding character to your compliment words. What other metaphors for fun can you think of? Waterslides? Zip lines? Ice cream cones?
21. How Do You Keep Being So Funny And Making Everyone Laugh?
A general awed “How do you do (x)?” is a consistent way to say, “I’m impressed!
22. You Have The Courage Of Your Convictions.
We love this one because it recognizes the value in another’s honesty, authenticity, and integrity. Speaking our truth is hard. It will always be. We can all use all the support and encouragement we can get to keep being strong in our beliefs no matter how vulnerable we may feel when we fight for them, especially in the face of opposition.
23. You Are Making A Difference.
You are letting your loved one know that their actions, thoughts, insights, and presence matter to you, and to everyone around you.